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HOW TO BE HAPPY: GET HEALTHY, GET MARRIED AND GO OUT FOR DINNER

May 17, 2019 6 Comments

It turns out – as if we didn’t know – that health really is wealth. A report on personal wellbeing published by the ONS (Office of National Statistics) this week reveals we rate good health as the key to happiness. What the research doesn’t answer is what comes first: do we feel good because we are healthy; or get healthy because we feel good? Either way, it’s another reminder that prioritising good health when we can reaps benefits beyond the physical.

Get married….

Marital status also appears to impact our wellbeing, with married people reporting higher life satisfaction. Marital status appears to matter more for people’s wellbeing now than it did six years ago (when the survey was last undertaken).

In our book, we report on the age-well health benefits of marriage (for which, read: long-term settled relationship or civil partnership). Heart disease is less prevalent in married people than unmarried, divorced or widowed people. A meta-analysis of 15 studies, involving over 800,000 people worldwide, found that lifelong single people had a 42 per cent elevated risk of dementia compared with their married counterparts. The report’s author explained that it’s not the fact of putting a ring on it that counts, but the social interaction and greater attention to health that marriage brings. And we were fascinated to learn that marriage is particularly favourable for one of the sexes, healthwise – but you’ll have to read the book to find out which.

Go out for dinner…..

Regardless of marital status, the report also finds that treating ourselves can give great pleasure. People who spent a high share of their money on hotels and dining out showed the highest levels of satisfaction with life, suggesting that enjoyable experiences and special occasions make us happier. This does sound like stating the bleeding obvious, of course, but it’s not the amount spent that counts: it’s the share of income. So the occasional night out, or cheeky weekend away – regardless of budget – is a worthwhile indulgence if the result is happiness.

It’s our age…..

And for those of us grappling with the complexities of midlife, it’s good to know that things get better. Younger and older people say they are very satisfied with life, with a dip among the middle aged. We just need to hang on till 60, apparently, and then it all gets better!

Mental Health Awareness Week

It’s Mental Health Awareness Week so there’s no better time to think about our levels of life satisfaction and how to improve them. There’s more information about the Week, and how to seek help, here.

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Annabel and I are off to a TV studio in East London tonight to record an interview about the book for an Australian TV show – Weekend Sunrise. So if you’re reading this Down Under, do tune in and watch us on Saturday morning!

Susan

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  1. Brian Donovan says

    May 20, 2019 at 10:59 am

    Hi, Susan.

    While many do agree that health is important in ageing (or, rather, in living), it is equally important to clearly state what is meant by ‘health’. In asking a good few people of late to define health, few appear to be able to do so without mention of illness/disease. So, health is more commonly defined as the absence of illness/disease.

    I recently came across a nice, working and practical, definition of health from researcher Suresh I.S. Rattan. ‘Health is a state of adequate physical and mental independence in activities of daily life’.

    With such a working definition of health, many older adults will be able to look at their current state of such independence in activities of daily, and make the effort to learn how to improve on such independence. I suspect such a definition is one that many, once exposed to, will use frequently in their daily life.

    Keep up the great posts.

    brian

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    • Susan Saunders says

      May 22, 2019 at 10:14 am

      Really good point, Brian, thank you. Yes, we do tend to think of health as an absence of disease. But I like the Rattan definition: being able to perform the activities of every day life is vital. And I hope that, as we age, ‘health’ continues to deliver more than the sum of its parts – a feeling of vibrancy and optimism too!

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  2. Catherine says

    May 23, 2019 at 4:22 pm

    Hi, I do think you need to qualify the married recommendation with ‘happily’ married. There are an awful lot of people in abusive long term relationships and that’s no good for anyone’s health.

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    • Susan Saunders says

      May 27, 2019 at 11:34 am

      That’s a really good point, Catherine, thank you

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  3. Jeff Hess says

    May 27, 2019 at 12:32 am

    So,

    I read the article on The Guardian, checked local availability of the book, ordered a copy and then sat down to scan the blog after adding the URL to my blogroll.

    Second article I read contains this line:

    And we were fascinated to learn that marriage is particularly favourable for one of the sexes, healthwise – but you’ll have to read the book to find out which.

    I stopped reading, canceled my book order, deleted the blog from my blogroll and wrote this comment.

    Did you really think that line would boost sales?

    Cheers…

    Reply
    • Annabel Streets says

      June 3, 2019 at 5:16 pm

      We’re sorry to hear that, Jeff. We can’t give everything away as it would make the book rather dull for our readers and after writing and researching for five years we need to sell a few books to enable us to continue running the blog (a labour of love). We respect your opinion, of course…

      Reply

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